n 1811, Thomas Jefferson, at age 68 years, wrote the “Canons of Conduct” – 12 rules of living to his granddaughter, Cornelia Jefferson Randolph, his granddaughter. Number 10 on that list has always intrigued me. It reads, “take things by their smooth handle.” What does that mean?
How to Mourn or to be Present for Those Who Mourn
I didn’t plan on blogging on the Jewish tradition of mourning this week.
But, in one short week, several of the people in my orb have been impacted by the sudden death a loved one—a pastor whose father died, a woman whose son was killed in an accident, and a friend who passed away during surgery. All this week.
So, I did some reading on how Jews of the Old Testament and some today manage grief. What I learned is that the Jews view morning as occurring in stages.
Why Children of Immigrant Parents are Excelling--and What We can Learn from These Parents...
In a recent Science Talent Search, 33 out of 40 finalists were children of immigrants. This is not unusual. The success of children of immigrants is becoming more and more apparent.
Leonard Sax, a family physician, recently authored an article published by the institute for Family Studies. In this article, Sax notes that this same trend can be seen in the recent Scripps Spelling Bee and other high-profile competitions. The children of immigrants are quickly rising to the top.
“This is a big deal,” Sax writes, “because it’s a recent development. Traditionally, children of immigrants were more likely to struggle,.” Sax explains how, during his own doctorate training he was taught that “immigrant status was a predictor of bad outcomes for children.” But, this is no longer true.
Sax believes there are three characteristics of immigrant families…